Love is a participation in the love that God is (Bishop Robert Barron)

   The Lord says that the second greatest commandment is to love your neighbor as yourself. 

   Love is not primarily a feeling or an instinct; rather, it is the act of willing the good of the other as other.  It is radical self-gift, living for the sake of other.  To be kind to someone so that he might be kind to you, or to treat a fellow human being justly so that he, in turn, might treat you with justice, is not to love, for such moves are tantamount to indirect self-interest.

   Truly to love is to move outside of the black hole of one’s egotism, to resist the centripetal force that compels one to assume the attitude of self-protection.  But this means that love is rightly described as a theological virtue, for it represents a participation in the love that God is.

   Since God has no needs, only God can utterly exist for the sake of the other.  All of the great masters of the Christian spiritual tradition saw that we are able to love only inasmuch as we have received, as a grace, as share in the very life, energy, and nature of God.

--Bishop Robert Barron, Gospel Reflection

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