What do we do with the gifts we have been given?
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Welcome to the parish blog of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church in Mill Valley, California
Five of them were foolish and five were wise.
The foolish ones, when taking their lamps,
brought no oil with them,
but the wise brought flasks of oil with their lamps.
--Matthew 25
When the bridegroom finally comes, all the virgins awaken and trim their lamps in order to have wicks the correct size so that the flame isn’t too tall, putting black smoke stains on the glass lamps. The foolish virgins realize too late that they don’t have enough oil, thus declaring to all that they are not prepared.
What stands out in my mind is how long it seems to take the foolish virgins to realize they don’t have enough oil and are not ready to meet the Bridegroom, their Savior. Isn’t that one of the most important things we should be doing: looking towards our Savior?
The last words of our reading today sends a vital message, a true life lesson (at least into my heart). The message is: Stay awake, for you know neither the day nor the hour. This is not about doing good deeds that will balance out our poor behavior. This is not about some sort of tallying system (the Good & the Bad) in a Book of Reckoning up in heaven. This reading and many other readings speak about the futility of trying to “earn” your way into heaven, into a good relationship with God.
What is important is that at any given moment we need to be in a right relationship with God, and we do that by seeking, by finding, and by serving God in every single experience or encounter we have throughout every day.
--Jackie Bacon,
OLMC Communion Service,
November 22, 2022
Image source 1: https://tomperna.org/2013/08/30/the-bridegroom-ten-maidens-and-a-marriage-feast/
Image source 2: Parable of the Ten Virgins, window, St. Ulrich d'Altenstadt, France, https://www.facebook.com/martine.gilhard/posts/28945393791748973/
One of the moments when we feel our own weakness most acutely is in times of sorrow. Grief has a way of stripping away our illusions of self-sufficiency. When faced with loss, disappointment, illness or death, we often discover that no amount of planning, strength or determination can shield us from pain. It is precisely in such moments that today’s Gospel becomes especially consoling. Jesus does not promise that his disciples will never suffer; rather, he promises that they will never suffer alone.
Paul Cézanne’s La Douleur (Sorrow) captures this with extraordinary sensitivity. The painting depicts Mary Magdalene overwhelmed by grief after the crucifixion of Christ. Her head is bowed, her body seems weighed down by sadness, and the entire composition is infused with a profound sense of loss. Yet Cézanne appears to hint at something more. Above her head are three swirling, flame-like forms that resemble tongues of fire. They evoke the image of the Holy Spirit descending at Pentecost. It is as if the artist is reminding us that even in the darkest moments of grief, God never abandons us. The Spirit hovers quietly over our sorrow, not always removing the pain, but accompanying us through it.
Is it not Wisdom, who spirits our gardens and oceans as we play in the abundant beauty that surrounds us?
Is it not Wisdom, who sits at our kitchen table as we discuss the events of the day, measuring our wealth by what we share with others?
Is it not Wisdom, who plays in our sandboxes with our children when generosity is taught, forgiveness is given, and justice is rewarded?
Is it not She, who helps us keep a compassionate silence in the face of suffering?
Yes, Holy Wisdom delights in us.
We will never understand the mystery that the poet of Proverbs explores, but if we sit in silence with the barn doors open wide, Wisdom will feed our imaginations so that our spirits will rise and be able to enter into the dance of praise and gratitude. And don’t worry. Even if our legs are a bit old, we’ll be able to join in the dance because we know the steps by heart.
--Sr. Patricia Bruno OP
Image source: Emily K. Grieves, Wisdom’s Table (2017). https://www.emilykgrievesart.com/images/wisdoms-table
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The condition for being prepared for the encounter with the Lord is not only faith, but a Christian life abundant with love and charity for our neighbour. If we allow ourselves to be guided by what seems more comfortable, by seeking our own interests, then our life becomes barren, incapable of giving life to others, and we accumulate no reserve of oil for the lamp of our faith.
--Pope Francis
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