Five of them were foolish and five were wise.
The foolish ones, when taking their lamps,
brought no oil with them,
but the wise brought flasks of oil with their lamps.
--Matthew 25
When the bridegroom finally comes, all the virgins awaken and trim their lamps in order to have wicks the correct size so that the flame isn’t too tall, putting black smoke stains on the glass lamps. The foolish virgins realize too late that they don’t have enough oil, thus declaring to all that they are not prepared.
What stands out in my mind is how long it seems to take the foolish virgins to realize they don’t have enough oil and are not ready to meet the Bridegroom, their Savior. Isn’t that one of the most important things we should be doing: looking towards our Savior?
The last words of our reading today sends a vital message, a true life lesson (at least into my heart). The message is: Stay awake, for you know neither the day nor the hour. This is not about doing good deeds that will balance out our poor behavior. This is not about some sort of tallying system (the Good & the Bad) in a Book of Reckoning up in heaven. This reading and many other readings speak about the futility of trying to “earn” your way into heaven, into a good relationship with God.
What is important is that at any given moment we need to be in a right relationship with God, and we do that by seeking, by finding, and by serving God in every single experience or encounter we have throughout every day.
--Jackie Bacon,
OLMC Communion Service,
November 22, 2022
Image source 1: https://tomperna.org/2013/08/30/the-bridegroom-ten-maidens-and-a-marriage-feast/
Image source 2: Parable of the Ten Virgins, window, St. Ulrich d'Altenstadt, France, https://www.facebook.com/martine.gilhard/posts/28945393791748973/